2 Lawyering in Domestic Violence Cases
2 Lawyering in Domestic Violence Cases aetrahan Wed, 08/23/2023 - 14:422.1 Ethical Lawyering
2.1 Ethical Lawyering aetrahan Wed, 08/23/2023 - 14:42Lawyer competence in domestic violence cases requires that attorneys understand both the substantive law related to a client’s legal claims and the dynamics and effects of domestic violence.1 A lawyer who possesses basic competence about domestic violence is more likely to adequately address client safety concerns when crafting legal strategy and resolutions, to identify or discover important evidence, and to help the trier of fact understand victim behavior that seems counter-intuitive or self-destructive when not properly contextualized. Competence also allows for legal outcomes that are safer and more effective in the long run and that don’t lead to unforeseen consequences.
- 1See generally Am. Bar Ass’n, Comm’n on Domestic & Sexual Violence, The Domestic Violence Civil Law Manual: Protection Orders and Family Law Cases (4th ed. 2017).
2.2 Key Areas of Assistance
2.2 Key Areas of Assistance aetrahan Wed, 08/23/2023 - 14:442.2.1 General Principles
2.2.1 General Principles aetrahan Wed, 08/23/2023 - 14:44A 2003 study found that legal assistance is the most effective service for reducing domestic violence in the long run.1 Examples of how civil legal assistance can make a difference for survivors appear in the following sections.
- 1Amy Farmer & Jill Tielenthaler, Explaining the Recent Decline in Domestic Violence, 21 Contemp. Econ. Pol’y 158, 159 (2003).
2.2.2 Protective Orders
2.2.2 Protective Orders aetrahan Wed, 08/23/2023 - 14:45Protective orders do not guarantee safety. But a comprehensive study examining the effectiveness of protective orders concluded that victims experienced a significant reduction in abuse, violence, and fear during the 6 months following issuance of a protective order.1 Protective orders, once in place, criminalize conduct that usually would not be a criminal offense, e.g., contact by telephone or through third parties. They can also help a victim receive assistance from the police and support from family, employers, and leaseholders.
- 1TK Logan & Robert Walker, Carsey Institute, Policy Brief No. 18, Civil Protective Orders Effective in Stopping or Reducing Partner Violence 2 (2011). The study also shows reduced efficacy when stalking behavior preceded the protective order, and differences in effectiveness for urban and rural victims. Rural women experienced more violations of protective orders than urban women in the study. Id. at 3.
2.2.3 Divorce
2.2.3 Divorce aetrahan Wed, 08/23/2023 - 14:48Divorce can help end the violence. Some abusive partners no longer view their spouses as property after divorce. Divorce can also provide the survivors with certain financial protections and with a sense of freedom to move on emotionally.
2.2.4 Child Custody & Visitation
2.2.4 Child Custody & Visitation aetrahan Wed, 08/23/2023 - 14:49Many abusive former partners use child custody litigation to continue their harassment and abuse of victims.1 Assistance with custody and visitation are the most requested legal services for survivors. Many abusers also physically, sexually or emotionally abuse their children.2 But even when domestic violence and physical abuse of a child do not co-occur, well regarded empirical studies show that many children who are exposed to domestic violence perpetrators in their home suffer social, cognitive, and psychological consequences virtually identical to those suffered by children who are themselves physically abused.3 Good lawyering in domestic violence cases can help victims obtain custody orders that protect themselves and their children from future harm and reduce the likelihood of these outcomes.
- 1Peter Jaffe, et al., Dep’t of Justice Canada, Making Appropriate Parenting Arrangements in Family Violence Cases: Applying the Literature to Identify Promising Practices 16 (2005); Joan Zorza & Leora Rosen, Guest Editor’s Introduction, 11 Violence Against Women 983, 985–86 (2005).
- 2Jaffe, et al., supra.
- 3Evan Stark, The Battered Mother’s Dilemma, in 2 Violence Against Women in Families and Relationships 95, 112 (Evan Stark & Eve Buzawa. eds., 2009); A Judicial Guide to Child Safety in Custody Cases, Nat’l Council Juvenile & Family Court Judges, 6 (2008), (citing Behind Closed Doors: The Impact of Domestic Violence on Children, UNICEF (2006).
2.2.5 Spousal & Child Support
2.2.5 Spousal & Child Support aetrahan Thu, 08/24/2023 - 10:51Many survivors need child or spousal support after separation to maintain self-sufficiency and household well-being. However, abusive former partners are much less likely than non-abusive partners to pay child support.1 They often stop paying support to force the victim to return to the relationship or to punish them for leaving. The effects of abuse, including the trauma of abuse and the employment disruption often associated with abuse, can also make it difficult for survivors to quickly get or maintain employment and to build long-term financial security.
- 1Lundy Bancroft, et al., The Batterer as Parent: Addressing the Impact of Domestic Violence on Family Dynamics 156 (2d ed. 2012).
2.2.6 Community Property
2.2.6 Community Property aetrahan Thu, 08/24/2023 - 10:53The survivor’s right to a home, car, or pension may be essential to avoiding homelessness, keeping a job, or securing economic independence. While these assets may be essential for financial stability, victims of abuse routinely negotiate away financial support and assets to which they are entitled in exchange for securing safe custody arrangements for their children.1 A informed lawyer can provide legal guidance and advice on how to reduce unnecessary concessions and maintain a victim’s financial stability.
- 1Evan Stark, The Battered Mother’s Dilemma, in 2 Violence Against Women in Families and Relationships 95, 114 (Evan Stark & Eve Buzawa. eds., 2009).
2.2.7 Housing
2.2.7 Housing aetrahan Thu, 08/24/2023 - 10:54Up to 50% of all women and children experiencing homelessness are fleeing domestic violence.1 Even if not unhoused, victims of domestic violence and their children often live in chronically unstable housing circumstances that contribute to negative health and social outcomes.2 It costs survivors thousands of dollars for each housing relocation necessitated by domestic violence.3 In Louisiana, finding a new apartment and moving can easily cost thousands of dollars, without counting all the personal property the abuser may destroy or the victim has to abandon.4 And even when a victim is not fleeing from domestic violence, abusive partners sometimes force housing emergencies by failing to pay the mortgage or rent or causing the victim to be evicted because of his conduct.5 Eviction for a lease violation can cause a subsidized tenant to lose her rent subsidies for several years. For this reason, victims receiving subsidized housing assistance need specialized help to protect their housing rights.6
- 1Chiquita Rollins, et al., Housing Instability is as Strong a Predictor of Poor Health Outcomes as Level of Danger in an Abusive Relationship, 27 J. Interpersonal Violence 623, 625 (2012).
- 2Id. at 635.
- 3In 2004, the estimated cost was $5000 per relocation, so today the cost is presumably much higher. Barbara Hart & Erika Sussman, Civil Tort Suits and Economic Justice for Battered Women, Victim Advocate (Spring 2004).
- 4See Louisiana Fair Market Rent, rentdata.org. For the state as a whole, the fair market rent for a two-bedroom apartment is $763 a month, while for the New Orleans metro area, FMR for a two-bedroom unit is $1,182. Moving in typically requires payment of first month’s rent along with a security deposit equal to a month’s rent, in addition to any application fees.
- 5While there are some protections for tenants experiencing domestic violence, these are limited. For further discussion, see Section 5.3.3 of this chapter Section 1.7 of the chapter on landlord-tenant law.
- 6For discussion of unique issues facing subsidized housing tenants, see Section 10.2 of this chapter and Section 1.4.6 and Section 4.1 of the chapter on federally subsidized housing.
2.2.8 Employment
2.2.8 Employment aetrahan Thu, 08/24/2023 - 11:14Abusive partners often harass their victims at work or engage in other conduct that gets them fired.1 Absences from work due to court appearances and abuse can also lead to problems with employers. Job protection is essential to economic independence.
- 1Bureau of Justice Statistics, Female Victims of Crimes (1991) (abusers harass 74% of employed battered women at work either in person or by phone); Kathryn Showalter, Women’s Employment and Domestic Violence: A Review of the Literature, 31 Aggression and Violent Behavior 37, 40 (2016) (61.4% of women harassed on the phone at work and 39.2% harassed in person at work).
2.2.9 Public Benefits
2.2.9 Public Benefits aetrahan Thu, 08/24/2023 - 11:18A victim may need help with Temporary Assistance for Needy Families (TANF), Special Supplemental Nutrition Program for Women, Infants, and Children (WIC), disability benefits, Social Security payments, and unemployment compensation.1
2.2.10 Taxes
2.2.10 Taxes aetrahan Thu, 08/24/2023 - 11:19Filing joint tax returns with an abusive partner can cause survivors to incur unexpected tax liabilities. Many abusive partners keep their spouses in the dark about financial information. Significant innocent spouse, injured spouse, and equitable relief may be available to victims who face tax liabilities caused by an abusive partner. Victims may also need assistance securing their rights to the Child Tax Credit, the Child and Dependent Care Tax Credit, and/or the Earned Income Credit, which can improve their financial situation. Although the Child Tax Credit can be extremely helpful for survivors with children, abusers often seek to claim the credit for themselves, resulting in litigation. The IRS provides an overview and Frequently Asked Questions on tax issues specific to victims of domestic violence.1
- 1Internal Revenue Serv., Pub. 3865, Tax Information for Survivors of Domestic Abuse (Nov. 2022). For additional information, see this manual’s chapter on tax law, particularly Section 11.
2.2.11 Consumer Debt & Credit Issues
2.2.11 Consumer Debt & Credit Issues aetrahan Thu, 08/24/2023 - 11:22Economic independence can be supported by the reduction of consumer debt through bankruptcy and non-bankruptcy strategies.1 Almost all victims (99 percent) of intimate-partner violence will face some type of economic abuse in their relationship.2 Although many people assume that victims of abuse are always financially dependent upon abusive partners, often the opposite is true. Many times, the abusive partner exploits the victim through taking/spending her earnings and using her credit. In addition to coercing victims into unwanted debt, abusive partners sometimes secretly ruin their partner’s credit, take out credit in their names without their knowledge, and commit identity fraud for personal financial gain. So, survivors sometimes need assistance correcting or restoring their credit histories or pursuing criminal and civil remedies for identity theft. The remedies available to victims of this type of economic abuse may differ depending upon whether the parties are married. The Center for Survivor Agency & Justice provides excellent on-line resources, technical support, and training to attorneys representing survivors who need consumer advocacy on issues relating to coerced debt.3
- 1Leah Plunkett & Erika Sussman, Consumer Rights Screening Tool for Domestic Violence Advocates and Lawyers, Nat’l Consumer Law Ctr. & Ctr. for Survivor Agency & Just. 4–7 (2011).
- 2Quick Guide: Economic and Financial Abuse, National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (April 12, 2017); Tia Thomas, Economic Abuse in the Domestic Violence Context: Towards a Comprehensive Solution at the Federal and State Level, 43.1 Columbia J. of Gender and L. 98, 102–03 (2022).
- 3Consumer Rights Initiative, Ctr. for Survivor Agency & Just.
2.2.12 Immigration
2.2.12 Immigration aetrahan Thu, 08/24/2023 - 13:35An immigrant spouse who leaves an abusive partner may face deportation. Abusive partners sometimes use immigration petitions and I.C.E. as a means of coercion and control over immigrant spouses. Abusive partners who already have citizenship often threaten to withhold or withdraw their immigration assistance and affidavits of support if the victim calls the police or leaves, sometimes even contacting I.C.E.to have the victim arrested at a protective order hearing.1 This power imbalance gives the abusive partner significant leverage to control and isolate the abused spouse. In cases where the abusive partner is undocumented, the partner subjected to abuse may feel reluctant to report the violence for fear of the abusive partner’s deportation. Many survivors in this situation desire for the abuse to stop but may not want the abusive partner deported.
An immigrant survivor may self-petition (i.e., file a petition in her own name) the USCIS for legal resident status or suspension of deportation. Although not usually allowed under federal regulations, Legal Services Corporation (LSC) attorneys may represent immigrant domestic violence victims in domestic violence matters. Family law cases involving people who have very recently immigrated to the U.S. may present immigration-related risks that lawyers must be aware of when providing representation; these cases may also present challenges that need to be planned for if witnesses to the abuse and evidence of the abuse are in the home country.2
- 1Melissa Jeltsen, Domestic Abusers Have an Ally in the Trump Era. It’s ICE, Huffington Post (July 24, 2018).
- 2 For additional discussion of the unique needs of immigrant survivors, see Section 9.1.
2.2.13 Victim Compensation Funds
2.2.13 Victim Compensation Funds aetrahan Thu, 08/24/2023 - 13:39Survivors may be eligible for reparations under the Louisiana Crime Victims Reparations Act.1 Among other things, victim compensation can be awarded for medical bills, dental expenses, lost wages, relocation expenses, and mental health counseling necessitated by the crime. The application for compensation must be filed within one year of the crime. Lawyers can help determine a client’s eligibility for victim compensation, assist with necessary paperwork, and advocate for clients as they navigate the process of requesting compensation. A state website explains the process in Louisiana.2 Claims must be filed through the victim’s local sheriff’s office. The state maintains a list of contact information for the victim compensation claims person in each Sherriff’s office.3
- 1La. R.S. 46:1801.
- 2Crime Victims Reparations, La. Comm’n on Law Enforcement.
- 3Id.
2.3 Safe Lawyering
2.3 Safe Lawyering aetrahan Thu, 08/24/2023 - 13:452.3.1 Office Protocol
2.3.1 Office Protocol aetrahan Thu, 08/24/2023 - 13:45Lawyers should be realistic about client safety concerns. No lawyer can protect their client from a determined domestic violence perpetrator. We can, however, take steps to minimize the risks our clients, ourselves, and others face. Safety tips for lawyers include:
- Screen to determine whether your client has been or is being subjected to abuse even if they are there for a different reason. (You may want to use the Power and Control Wheel in your screening.1 ) Simply asking someone whether he or she is a “victim of domestic violence” is not an effective screening tool because victims often do not readily identify themselves as “victims” in response to that question. Additionally, be on alert for other issues that may necessitate further screening (e.g., if the client’s partner accompanies her to the office and insists on participating in the interview, listens to your phone conversations, or is excessively litigious. These can be signs that domestic violence is involved).
- Assess the level of risk to your client and make sure she has a safety plan. Maintain a close and continuing partnership with an agency or organization that has expertise in both risk assessment and safety planning so that clients who are in danger can be connected to resources right away.2
- Keep all client information confidential. Train office staff on office security procedures and the importance of absolute confidentiality. Safeguard any client files that are taken out of the office.
- Protect the confidentiality of your client’s addresses (work, home, and children’s new school) in pleadings and discovery to the extent possible.3
- Practice safe communications with your client. This means first establishing safe contact information and carefully documenting client files with this information. Your client file should clearly and prominently indicate whether and when it is safe to call a client, whether it is safe to leave messages, and whether it is safe to mail documents to her at home.
- When you do initiate contact by telephone, speak only to your client. Do not tell a family member that you are a lawyer. If possible, block caller ID when you call. At the beginning of each call, ask your client if it is safe to talk. Do not leave messages on voice mail and never leave detailed messages at all. In high-risk cases, have a code word or expression that you and your client both understand is a signal that your client is in danger.
- Let your client know ahead of time about case developments so that she may take extra safety precautions if the abusive party becomes angry. Always keep your client informed about the filing and service of pleadings on former abusive partners so that she can do appropriate safety planning.
- For lawyer safety, avoid using your own cell phone to contact clients. Many abusive partners routinely monitor their partner’s communications and will not hesitate to “return” your call. Because of this risk, you may not want to identify your agency on your own voicemail greeting. If you do need to use your cellphone out of necessity or need to text your client, use a calling app like Google Voice to help keep your personal number private.
- Clients should not be kept in a public waiting room in your office when safety is potentially an issue. Consider telephone intake or other security measures when needed.
- 1For a copy of this tool to assess the overall patterns of abusive and violent behaviors in a case, see Domestic Abuse Intervention Project, Power and Control Wheel.
- 2For further discussion of safety plans and maintaining connections with resources for formulating them and supporting clients, see Section 2.3.3.
- 3In Louisiana, only protective orders under La. R.S. 46:2135–2136 expressly allow the victim’s address to remain confidential. However, lawyers can file motions as needed to protect address confidentiality, especially when responding to discovery requests.
2.3.2 Court Protocol
2.3.2 Court Protocol aetrahan Thu, 08/24/2023 - 14:01Court hearings pose special risks in domestic violence and stalking cases. On the day of court, a dangerous former partner or stalker knows exactly when and where to find their victim. Lawyers should follow strict safety protocols for themselves and their clients:
- Arrive early to court so that your client is not alone in the courthouse hallway or courtroom with an abusive partner.
- Meet your client inside the courthouse, on the inside of the security checkpoint. Do not stand outside of the courthouse or outside of the security checkpoint with your client either before or after court.
- Your client should be accompanied to the courthouse by someone if possible, and you should try to make arrangements that do not require that your client be in physical proximity to the abusive former partner while waiting for her case to be called.
- In some cases, you may want to introduce your client to a court officer and identify the abusive partner. If the courthouse does not have a safe place for victims, advise your client to stand or sit near a deputy. Never leave your client alone with the abusive former partner. You should sit between the other party and your client during any hearing that requires the parties be in close proximity.
- At the conclusion of your hearing, ask the court to order that the opposing party remain in the courtroom until your client can leave the courthouse. Ask if your client can be escorted by a security officer, if available. Be aware that the abuser’s relatives may also present a risk to your client. Sometimes courts will order that the abusive party leave first, which creates the risk that he will wait outside. Communicate these concerns to the court as necessary.
- Hold depositions in safe settings, e.g., a courthouse with a metal detector. Follow the safety rules for court appearances. If necessary, try to quash depositions that seek your client’s personal attendance in the presence of the abusive party. Use technology, such as Zoom, to conduct remote depositions if safety concerns cannot be overcome.
- The abusive party’s attorney is often inexperienced in domestic violence or family law and may create more safety risks. Be explicit with opposing counsel regarding your expectations relating to safety protocols, e.g., whether his or her client can be present for depositions, settlement negotiations, etc.
Note on victims of stranger/acquaintance stalking: Keep in mind that victims of stranger or acquaintance stalking may face different or even heightened threats associated with civil court proceedings. In these cases, civil court processes may make the situation more dangerous by increasing opportunities for contact with the victim and by disclosing personal information about victims that can later be used to track or stalk them. In cases like these, carefully consider whether the client’s safety goals might be better addressed through criminal legal proceedings. At the very least, minimize the stalker’s opportunity to engage with the victim by ensuring that clients do not make unnecessary in-person appearances for court, discovery, or other litigation related proceedings.
2.3.3 Lethality Assessments
2.3.3 Lethality Assessments aetrahan Thu, 08/24/2023 - 14:04Lawyers representing victims of abuse should always try to ascertain the level of risk or danger to each client. If the case has been referred by a shelter or another battered women’s organization, ask for their assessment of lethality. A simple rule of thumb for assessing risk is to determine whether your client is afraid she will be killed or hurt. A victim’s perception that she is in danger is a reliable indicator that she is.1
Attorneys will often be assisting a victim during a time when she faces heightened risks and must take special precautions for her safety. Separation from the abuser is the most dangerous time for victims.2 Also keep in mind that abusive partners who violate protective orders, strangle their victims, commit violence in public, and stalk or escalate the violence at separation are particularly dangerous.
The following factors may be used to help assess whether the abuser has the potential to kill his partner:
- Threats of homicide or suicide
- Fantasies of homicide or suicide
- Stalking
- History of victim strangulation
- Depression or other mental health issues
- Access to or use of weapons
- Obsession about the partner or her family
- Centrality of the victim to the abuser’s life
- Substance abuse
- Rage or separation violence
- Frequency of violence
- Escalation of violence
- Violation of protective order
- Prior criminal history or protective orders
- Hostage taking
- Abuse of pets
The more of these factors present, the greater the risk of severe harm to your client.3
- 1Jacquelyn C. Campbell, et al., The Danger Assessment: Validation of a Lethality Risk Assessment Instrument for Intimate Partner Femicide, 24 J. Interpersonal Violence 653, 657, 669–70 (2008). In this study, the authors conclude that a victim’s perceived risk of being killed or harmed was a strong indicator of actual risk. At the same time, the victim’s perception cannot be the only measure of risk because many victims also minimize their risk as a coping mechanism. Id.
- 2Evan Stark, The Battered Mother’s Dilemma, in 2 Violence Against Women in Families and Relationships 95, 104 (Evan Stark & Eve Buzawa. eds., 2009) (pointing out that the majority of abuse victims are not living with their perpetrator and that physical separation is rarely an “antidote” for abuse).
- 3Am. Bar Ass’n Comm’n on Domestic & Sexual Violence, Standards of Practice for Lawyers Representing Victims of Domestic Violence, Sexual Assault, and Stalking in Civil Protection Order Cases 44 (2007). Most of these factors may also be found in Campbell, et al., supra.
2.3.4 Safety Planning
2.3.4 Safety Planning aetrahan Thu, 08/24/2023 - 14:09Making sure that your client has a safety plan, either by helping her create one or by referring her to someone who will, is a fundamental obligation in domestic violence cases. Ideally, your client will have developed a safety plan with a counselor or case worker specialized in working with survivors. But do not just assume that she has one – always ask. If she does not have a safety plan, discuss the need for one with her and refer her to a counselor who can help her develop one. In the meantime, help her plan some essential strategies for safety (discussed below).
When an attorney believes a client faces immediate danger, it can be tempting to recommend that the client immediately go into a “shelter.” However, such a recommendation can be overwhelming for some clients. The practical realities of many survivors who have children and jobs make flight to a “shelter” nearly impossible, even assuming that such resources are even available. Conversations about safety require a much more nuanced assessment of a client’s individualized situation, and lawyers should be collaborative with clients during these discussions to avoid seeming condescending or insensitive to the complexity of their circumstances.
One of the first steps to take with respect to client safety planning is to assess the client’s phone and technology situation and whether it presents risks. If your client or her children’s cell phone accounts are tied to the abusive party’s cell phone account, the abusive party can likely activate GPS location tracking. Also talk to your client about whether the abusive party has access to passwords for email accounts, Facebook accounts, or other social media accounts that can be used to monitor, locate, or impersonate them. Clients should be thoughtful about whether social media posts, including photos, might help an abusive party monitor their activities or locate them.
The American Bar Association Lawyers’ Handbook on Domestic Violence and other guides recommend that you advise your client to:
- ALWAYS keep a protective order on her person and extra copies of her protective order at home, at work, and at any protected child’s school. She may also want to store a photo or copy of the protective order on her cell phone. A photo of the abusive party stored on the cell phone may also help law enforcement or security personnel.1
- Visit her local police station. Meet the officers and ask them to place her protective order on file. Although there is a protective order registry that is accessible by law enforcement, it is updated slowly at times and is not always available.
- Make the home as safe as possible and go to a safe place with the children if necessary.
- Develop an escape route and a safety plan for the family.
- Keep a bag packed and hidden in case flight becomes necessary.
- Keep a copy of all essential documentation, phone numbers, and addresses in a safe location other than home.
- Tell neighbors and co-workers the abuser’s identity.2
- Alter routines and trade cars with a friend or relative.
- Travel to and from work with another person.
- Stay alert and prepared to flee while exiting or entering vehicles.
- Keep their addresses and telephone numbers confidential.
- Screen incoming calls and keep a diary.
- If affordable, get a cell phone to call the police at 911. Most cell phones, even when not activated, can be charged and programmed to call 911.
- Give protective orders to school authorities to prevent the abusive party from picking up the children.
- Refrain from using Facebook and other social media—these can be used to track down your client. However, clients should be told to preserve, not delete social media accounts or profiles. Deleting accounts can sometimes trigger an abusive party who is monitoring the victim on social media to track the victim down in person. Also, the accounts often have evidence associated with them that needs to be retained for future litigation.
- Be specific. When discussing safety issues with your client, prompt the discussion with questions like:
- Where will he know to look for you?
- Does he know he can find you at the children’s school or bus stop?
- Does he know what church service you attend every week?
- Do you need to change the locks on your home?
- Do your children know what to do if he comes to your house?
- Do you have any friends or family who cannot be trusted to keep your address confidential?
Note on address confidentiality: The Louisiana Secretary of State maintains an address confidentiality program for victims of domestic violence, sexual abuse, and stalking. The program is designed to prevent abusers from locating victims using public records and provides a victim with a substitute address in place of their actual address. If you are working with a victim who is relocating, this system works best if she contacts the program before the actual relocation so that no records are made of the new address. To begin the process, visit the Secretary of State’s website.3
- 1Louisiana law requires the clerk of court to file protective orders with the state’s protective order registry. This enables the police in any parish to check the state registry.
- 2Photographs may be helpful. The client should consider notifying her supervisor. Apartment complex security should be notified.
- 3Address Confidentiality Program, La. Sec’y of State.
2.4 Interview Tips
2.4 Interview Tips aetrahan Thu, 08/24/2023 - 14:13-
Shame, fear, pride, privacy, or distrust may prevent a survivor from talking about abuse. She may feel that she will be judged, or she may have concerns about privacy and confidentiality. Confidentiality issues are important to address early on in the lawyer/client relationship because of some victims’ tendency to believe that an abusive partner is omnipotent – in other words, that he has the ability to know where the victim is and what she is doing at all times and is connected to “important” people in the community.
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The Power and Control Wheel is a good tool to help plan an interview.1 Work gradually toward direct, factual questions to elicit information, e.g., Are you afraid of him? Has he ever hurt you or threatened you? Has he ever pushed, hit, or kicked you? Has he ever put his hands around your neck when he’s angry?
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Many women will minimize the abuse, or the effects of the violence on their children, as a means of coping or because it has become somewhat “normal.” One common way that victims minimize abuse is to describe it in terms that suggest mutual violence (e.g., “we were fighting”). Make sure to clarify these issues with follow-up questions.
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Do not confuse futile retaliatory violence by a victim with “mutual conflict.” If a victim perceives that you will not believe she is a victim if she tells you the truth about her own conduct, you may miss important information. Most victims do get angry and do fight back. Be realistic about the fact that not all physical acts of resistance or violence against an abuser are self-defense. However, just because a victim has engaged in these normal reactions to abuse does not mean she does not need protection.
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If you feel your client is minimizing the danger she is in, be honest and tell her that you are concerned for her safety and the safety of her children.
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Never blame the victim. Respond to her in a non-judgmental way, and do not second-guess the choices that she made while trying to navigate or manage the situation she was in. If a client blames herself or makes excuses for the abusive partner’s conduct, do not ignore it. Tell the client that it is not her fault and nothing she did can justify the abusive party’s conduct. Even if she had cheated on her partner (as their abusive partners so often accuse), he has no right to harm her in response.
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Do not ask what she did to cause him to beat her. There is nothing about her or her actions that could prevent or justify the abuse committed against her.
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Do not ask why she did not leave sooner or why she went back. If you need to find out information like this later to prepare for court, you can instead ask questions like, “During that time, did you feel like you had other options? Why not?” or “Can you tell me more about what was going on during that time in your life when you moved back in?”
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Do not refer to the abuser by his relationship (e.g., husband, boyfriend). Refer to him by his first name or in the way the client says she wants.
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The danger of death or serious injury, ongoing trauma, and the welfare of her children are the immediate “life” issues that the client faces. After the client knows you will handle her immediate legal needs related to these issues, explore all her legal options for safety, economic resources, and housing.
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Do not interview a victim with a third party present. Although a victim may want to have a supportive friend in the room, she will lose confidentiality if you do so, and the friend can be deposed or forced to testify about what was discussed. Also, clients may not make frank disclosures of negative information with other family or friends present. The presence of new dating partners presents even more problematic issues that must be avoided. When leaving an abusive relationship, many victims are quick to enter another because it feels safer. But sometimes the new partner is also abusive, and the client has not yet realized the danger.
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Do not be surprised if a victim focuses on issues in the relationship other than abuse when interviewed, such as the abusive partner’s infidelity. Victims often feel very emotional about aspects of the relationship other than physical abuse.
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Expect that clients may withhold “negative” information until you have earned their trust by showing that you do not judge them. It makes sense that victims will portray themselves in a favorable light when trying to get the help they need. After you have developed a rapport with your client over time, you may want to go back to ask questions about what things the abusive partner may try to use against her in court, whether or not true.
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Do not make assumptions about the client’s credibility based on her emotional state while recounting the abuse, or her inability to coherently describe incidents or time frames. Some victims will recount incidents of abuse with an emotionless, flat affect, which can be a sign of trauma. Similarly, the more trauma survivor has experienced, the more likely it is that she will have memory gaps, confusion about the timeline of events, and difficulty providing distinct descriptions for individual incidents of abuse. For clients like these, the process of gathering information can require multiple meetings over time. To help build a logical chronology of events during this process, use prompts such as “was this before or after your daughter was born?” or “did this happen while you were living on Fern Street, or when you were in your current house
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Clients can feel emotionally taxed and traumatized after recounting their experience of abuse. Make sure to allow them breaks, make them comfortable with drinks and food if needed, and even offer to take a walk with them if you can safely do so. A simple physical activity like walking can help reduce the physical trauma reactions that a victim is experiencing. And before ending an interview, take the time to transition the discussion to a topic that will help move the client out of the emotionally vulnerable space she was in while discussing the abuse she has been subjected to.
- 1See Domestic Abuse Intervention Project, Power and Control Wheel.
2.5 Countering Myths About Domestic Violence
2.5 Countering Myths About Domestic Violence aetrahan Thu, 08/24/2023 - 14:24There are many myths about domestic violence. Some impair effective counseling of and advocacy for a victim. Those include the following:
Myth: Victims are poor, uneducated, helpless, emotionally fragile, and only come from marginalized groups.
Fact: While some of these factors can make someone more vulnerable to abuse or being trapped in abuse, domestic violence happens to people in all socioeconomic, ethnic, and age groups and to people of all education levels and personalities.1
Myth: Real victims are helpless and are too afraid to fight back.
Fact: Anger is the prevailing emotional response to abuse. Many people subjected to abuse are strong, willful, and resilient. Most victims engage in various forms of resistance to abusive and controlling behavior, including retaliatory violence. Many purposefully minimize their victimization by describing it in terms that suggest the violence is more mutual than it is, using terms like “we fought” instead of “he attacked me.
Myth: Domestic violence perpetrators are poor and uneducated and have anger management issues.
Fact: People who abuse their intimate partners can be well-spoken, well-educated, socially adept, and charismatic. They rarely appear “abnormal” in psychological testing and are no more likely to suffer from mental illness than others in the general population.2 Most expertly manage their anger by directing it primarily to a specific safe, intended target: the intimate partner.
Myth: Victims choose to stay in violent relationships, and so they should accept the consequences.
Fact: People subjected to abuse by intimate partners are crime victims. Domestic violence can happen to anyone. There are many reasons why some victims do not immediately leave a relationship or return to a relationship. In many cases, victims do end the relationship, but are relentlessly pursued by abusive former partners who force their way back into victims’ separate homes. The complexities of the decision-making processes and the dangerous choices victims face are rarely obvious to an outside observer.3
Myth: The victim’s behavior caused the battering or assault.
Fact: The victim does not cause and cannot control the abusive partner’s behavior. The perpetrator chooses to abuse his partner regardless of her behavior.
Myth: Domestic violence perpetrators can still be good parents, so long as you separate them from the victim.
Fact: Perpetrators of abuse typically engage in a wide range of harmful parenting behaviors apart from the abuse itself.4 They are unlikely to change unhealthy parenting habits at separation.5 To the contrary, after separation, children are at increased risk of physical and emotional abuse themselves, as perpetrators try to control their victim through the children – the only continued point of contact.6
2.6 Using Statutes Strategically
2.6 Using Statutes Strategically aetrahan Thu, 08/24/2023 - 14:34Louisiana has several civil statutes that create legal remedies designed specifically for victims of domestic violence. The most commonly used statutes include the Protection from Family Violence Act, Part II, Domestic Abuse Assistance,1 which provides for emergency protective orders, and the Post-Separation Family Violence Relief Act,2 which applies to child custody determinations where there is a “history of family violence.”3 For simplicity, in this chapter, we will generally refer to the protective order laws in the Protection from Family Violence Act, La. R.S. 46:2131–2143, as the Domestic Abuse Assistance Act or DAAA, and the Post-Separation Family Violence Relief Act as PSFVRA.
Before litigation for a client who has been subjected to abuse by an intimate partner, the lawyer should understand how these statutes may interact and/or affect strategy in any case. Attorneys should consider using a combination of these laws to address both short and long-term client needs. For example, when a victim requests temporary child custody in a protective order proceeding, the lawyer should be thoughtful about the potential effect of any resulting temporary child custody arrangements on the permanent custody case.
Try to avoid a “one size fits all” approach to domestic violence litigation. Domestic violence litigation requires careful consultation with clients about issues such as (1) whether legal action will positively or negatively impact their safety (i.e., will it be a deterrent or a trigger for this particular abusive partner?), (2) whether non-legal alternatives exist for accomplishing the client’s goals, and (3) whether litigation is likely to result in an abusive former partner having increased access to shared children (i.e., will the abusive party initiate custody litigation or begin exercising visitation he did not previously exercise?).
By exploring these issues, lawyers help clients assess the risks and benefits of any given course of action and make informed decisions about pursuing their legal rights. For example, a client may believe strongly that they need a custody order even though an abusive former partner has not sought visitation for years. It is the lawyer’s job to make sure the client understands that initiating litigation could result in increased visitation with the child or children. The client may nonetheless decide that the benefits outweigh the risks. Discuss these decisions fully and frankly with your clients. Clients who are more engaged in weighing the risks and benefits of pursuing a specific course of action are more likely to be safe and more likely to feel satisfied with outcomes from litigation and their lawyer’s service.